Dating Sites...#4

Ok peeps,


I know that you have all been waited with bated breath , for the next instalment. so without further ado.


So you have signed up to the site and you are getting some hits, you have followed the rules and ask questions, but something doesn't seem right.


 A few of the following might happen: - 

1. You are contacted by someone with the lyrics  that they love your profile and profess how they are looking for that wonderful relationship .... etc 
2. They hit you up, but after 2 or 3 mails they send you their private details and ask you to contact them by their email - 9/10 times is a yahoo address  :) 
3. If you chose to contact them that way, you may request a cam view so you know who you are talking to.
4. This will be shielded with excuses , either the camera is broken or they don't have a camera on their machine... flag #1
5. Whilst talking with them in the first email they send you, it will contain their life story  ....flag#2
6. If you are abroad, be very aware when all of a sudden they are travelling to a nearby country of where you live .... flag #3
7. You continue to ask them questions about their work , they seem evasive .....flag#4
8. Within a week they will request your number so that they can call you
9. They will call , but just to check the number is legit .... so humour them as this is part of the scam.
10. You have added them to your messenger list, but they are always invisible, when queried, it because they only want to talk with you ... flag #5

Ladies, if a person is putting themselves out there on a dating website, they must have the right tools, pitiful excuses such as I  don't have a cam or its not working is BS, and as soon as you get that excuse , get out as it will only be  time waster !

Until da next Tyme!

Dating Sites ....#3

Hey Peeps,

So following my previous blogs, about dating sites I  wanted to keep you updated and what to look for and what to avoid.

Ok ladies, it doesn't matter which site you choose they all have scammers so beware . I have catergorize some of the sites in how I believe they are viewed:

• The VIP Elite sites- they basically have the look good people who say the right things, but they act stoosh  like their sh*t don't stink , but they are the look good crew ....
• There is the medium class - they are a mixture of the look good crew, mixed with the working class and they are serious enough about finding a partner 
• The Lower class is the one that you will get more hits from, these will be the ones that you will find honest hard working guys, but they are riddled with scammers :(

Now the first rule is ASK questions - at some point if they are real they will have nothing to hide, also make sure that the image that they show on the site is the image of the person you are talking with as they like to use   other people image, so ask for a web cam !

If your spirit is not feeling the person, just tell them, you are not married to them so don't feel obligated ! 

If it sounds too good to be true..... then it ain't true !

Until da next Tyme !

Dating Sites ....#2

Hey there peeps,


Ok so here is the low down, a few days ago I told you all about my interaction with a dating site. Well I need to keep you all updated.


Ladies, what can I say, I am not an ugly duckling..... but I feel like I have been thrown in a room full of men that hasn't sniff a woman's scent in well over 2 years or more. Don't get me wrong I know that I command a room when I walk in and heads will turn, however this is beyond that , I am being flirted with by the good-looking, cute and the plain fugly! yeah that is right .... for those in the know !!


Men  on these sites are HUNGRY! .....seriously - I mean its like they spend so much time staring at your profile, then they hit you up  with a flirt and the first thing is they are interested in what is under your clothes , not high how are ya  doing?, nope they go straight for the kill ....


Make no mistakes these sites are not romantic, they are practical, they fill a niche in the market that has opened up over time as we are spending more time at work.


Watch out for the next blog where I will categorize them for you as I believe they come in different stages :)


Until da next Tyme !

Dating sites.......

Hello peeps,

So I am gonna venture into a topic that most people think about and even some venture to try, whether you are a man or a woman.

So recently my girl wanted me to join a dating site, now i am very sceptic about such things as with most things people tend to lie r elaborate the truth about bout they are , what they6 look like etc and i find that I really have no time for the BS.

However with work life taking more of our time, we are losing the time to meet people naturally as we did years ago, we spend most of our time working or travelling so the time to meet a potential partner are very limited, hence dating sites, as we are more or less a techno age.

Now my first impressions is that most of these sites are the same, some people come across as desperate and some come across as seasoned Internet dating stalkers.
some guys are so desperate to chat with you that they give you all the information in one email that would take you a few dates to accumulate.

Others believe that you are an Internet dating whore and their first question is what you are wearing..... so that they can get their rocks off .....classy.

However there are a few genuine people out their that is looking for a friendship and maybe a long term relationship.

Just like normal dating its weeding out the time wasters from the real deal.

So far  I have attracted my fair share of BS and a few weirdos along the way, but they are one or two interesting ones, so I will keep you posted.

Until da next Tyme !