Did you know that 55% of the impression we make depends on our body language, 38% on the tone, speed and inflection of our voice and only 7% from what we are actually saying?
Some of us need to step up our game - Learn how to flirt – and kiss your single status goodbye.
- Avoid a cheesy pick-up line – it falls flat if the person as heard it before;
- Look the person you're flirting with in the eyes, but also include the mouth and even the body;
- Subtly mirror the person's positive behaviour – when she takes a sip of her drink, you take one too (this instinctively makes the person feel that you're on the same level);
- Pay compliments, which don't sound as if you're just trying to score points;
- When in a pub, club or dinner party, meet the person's eye, look down and look up again – this signals interest
- Never cross your arms – it sends a message of defensiveness, or stand-offishness;
- Watch those hands – fidgeting is a passion killer.
Until da next Tyme !
